Some helpful tips...

So in my short years in the dating scene, I've learned a few things about bringing guys back to your house. Just remember- you should always know the dude. I don't want to sound like your mom but strangers are kind of sketch. Just be smart. These tips have been compiled from experience with people I've known for a while and can be altered from hook-ups to just hanging out. So here we go. Now I'm not saying you need to change your apartment or anything, but here are a few things that girls should keep in the back of their heads when contemplating bringing a dude back to "hang out" at your place...

1. Beers in the fridge are always clutch

When bringing a guy back, especially after being out at a bar, it's usually a good idea to invite them up for a drink. If you have premeditated this after date hang out, you should be prepared. Having a 6-pack or a cheap bottle around the apartment can really help...set the mood.

2. DVD player in the bedroom can make things more interesting.

So here's a little story that happened to me... so I was hanging out with a guy friend of mine once and we decided to watch a movie, he happened to watch movies naked. I didn't want to make him feel awkward and you know...whatever. So in my experience, guys like to "watch movies" and they're usually naked while doing it.

3. Everyone likes guitar hero.

That's pretty self explanatory. Nothing says bangin' good time like battling it out to some classic rock.

4. Put sheets on your bed.

I'm a messy person. I have clothes all over my room and that's not a huge turn off to most guys (who are usually just as, or more messy as I am) but no one likes to chill on a bed without sheets, it reminds we of a cheesy motel on 9th ave where you pay by the hour.

5. Have fun!

Don't be afraid to be silly, laugh, or make jokes. It usually makes things less awkward for the both of you (esp. if you guys are friends first. it makes things more comfortable.)

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